I really enjoyed finding out that there are so many folks who have shared the experiences I have had myself. I never talked about my experiences with anyone because they were too private to share and I felt like they might be cheapened by someones ridicule. I now understand the widespread similarity of my experiences with others who also loved their pets. Very reassuring!
I read this book shortly after losing a pair of furry friends...cherished companions for many years. I knew why I was reading it too: looking out for exactly the kind of comfort these books are in the market for. The problem was twofold. First, it gave me exactly what I wanted to hear, except that for me, the effect was the opposite of what the author intended. I began to see the anecdotes as clear instances of psychological defense mechanisms and "grief reduction" on the part of the owners left behind. I also agree with the other reviewers who mentioned that there is too much spiritual philosophy in the book and not enough dealing with the raw experiences.
The raw experiences are probably the stronger aspect of the material, and the author should have stuck with that instead of trying to sell us the interpretations of animal psychics and a philosophy of reincarnation. I would be satisfied if I could convince myself that kitty even survived. That he's back as kitty ##2, doesn't really do anything to boost my mood. All in all, a book of comfort, but to really persuade critical souls like myself, I would need a lot, lot more.
A Must Read
I love this book! This book has really helped me when my beloved teddy crossed over in feb 2009. I was looking for answers to my questions like: Am I going to see my boy again? Is he ok? Did he make it to the other side? Or is he gone forever? This book has answered all of my questions and more. I am happy i bought this book, i refer to it often when i am missing my boy. Nothing is gone forever. My baby is always by my side and will be waiting for me by the bridge.
